In a blink!

Hi Guys,

Been over a month since I posted anything about decluttering, get rid of, purging, tossing out, throwing out, selling or giving away of all my worldly stuff.

To put it bluntly, I have been too busy with organising the Wrokdown gigs and frankly way too cold to get motivated.  Along with the fact that I have finally started at a gym in my quest to improve my health.  Once my health has improved and I have lessened my clutter load I will be one very pleased gal.

That being said it now has to continue to be done.  The declutterng that is.  Along with all the things and duties that I have had on my plate I had a personal 'family' moment (crisis) that now has made my task of decluttering all that much easier.

I have been persona non grata with my immediate family for the last 4 to 5 years.  This is through no fault of my own, but thrust upon me by my Mum before she died due to her Will.  Without going into the nitty gritty's  I have been tarred, feathered, shunned, ignored, called a liar and blamed for what someone else decided.  And the 2 people who placed me in this position apologised to me just days before they died for what they were about to put me through and the other for what they did to me.  Life and families.  Never easy.

I have tried in one direction of the immediate family to heal the rift, but 3 years on to no avail without any effort from their end either.  I see no point in continuing with this endeavour as the attitude is well entrenched and I do not care to surround myself with person's who think so lowly of me of which is based on perception and not fact. 

Life is way to short to be toxic like that and not good for one's health, wellbeing and peace of mind.

This has now been 'put to bed' on my part and will now venture forth with a clear view of life with the freedom that it affords me.  Now all I have to do is get what is on the exterior to catch up with how I think and feel. 

As for the stilleto shoes - they did go to a new home.  Phil from NSW just had to have them.  And I could understand.  I also sold some more clothes, but being the end of financial year it was a bit hohum and slow to go.  Out of 4 items 3 sold, but no profit to be had.  Just broke even.  EBay is not looking crash hot in helping me to get on top of things.

I have regrouped and will sell items at times when there is a market.  Like my hats which will be put up for sale in September just in time for the Spring Racing Carnival. 

As for sorting, it is so cold now that it is very uncomfortable to do.  In light of this it is off to the gym instead.  May as well make use of the time in a positive way. 

Well off to have a cuppa tea and then the gym...

Chookas
Anita who still grapples with her 'stuff'.